Do you have a cat or dog you treat almost as human?
You might want to back off from that.
It's not good for either you or the pet:
https://www.nytimes.com/2024/06/22/science/pets-health-behavior.html
Cats and dogs are animals, not people, and animals need their own space to be themselves.
Becoming obsessive about an animal is not good for humans, either.
And that is why after a lifetime of having an animal around I no longer do.
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